Live up to your "man" reputation and BE one.
I'm a girl who believes chivalry should never die. I appreciate the door being held open for me, and even more so when the guy continues to stand there and hold the door open for a long string of people. That shows a lot about his character.
Second. Don't ask a girl out via text message, email, or through a third party member. If you're really interested, you'll take the time to make that personal connection, and the chances of her saying "yes" multiplies dramatically. We recognize the courage it takes to approach us and those that actually do when big time. Sending text messages and emails is taking the easy way out, and I haven't placed myself in the easy category, sorry.
Make your intentions clearer. Our hearts take ideas and run with them in all sorts of directions unless there have been clear intentions stated. It really just makes things easier for everyone.
Please, show an interest in us. I love hearing about other people and for the most part, I prefer to let others do the talking because I love their stories. But, it really means the world to me when I am directly asked about myself. That being said, there is no bigger turn off for me than a guy who never asks me a single question. Or, if he does but then immediately checks out...adios senor.
I guess the moral of my brief rant here, is A) Men, be men. And B) Please, pursue us.
For the sake of holding back a lot of frustration, I won't go more in detail. Just ponder this for a while.
Man up.
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