I am a woman of few words.
I do not enjoy filling up space with empty words, but would rather speak with words with meaning behind them. I am very much an observer, and I always find it surprising just how much I know about others based on my "quiet" observations. Call me a stalker, but I'd prefer to call it taking good people notes.
I thrive better in smaller, more intimate groups than I do in larger settings. The larger the setting, the more I tend to drop back and watch. I'm not one to fight for attention, so thats why I enjoy the smaller, intimate groups more. I enjoy more personal time, and really getting to know people. However, just because I'm in a larger group does not mean that I am not enjoying myself. I genuinely love to be surrounded by people, again because of my love for observing.
My silence doesn't meant I'm not interested or not capable of intelligent communication, I'm just an internal processor. I think things over before I respond, and that itself has pros and cons.
It means the world to me when a question is asked and directed specifically towards me and of course sometimes I need that little jump start to not let my views and thoughts go on overlooked. So, thank you to those who make a point to ask. I'm trying to get better at more freely offering my opinions before being asked.
There's really no real rhyme or reason for this entry, just going along with discovering who I am.
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